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Men where you at?

Women are looking over their backs all the time these days. And to bring it home I’m just going to talk from my perspective. I no longer feel safe and can’t trust men, I’m even questioning the men around me. Very few women can honestly sit in a room and say they are safe in the same space as a man. Very few have the opportunity to speak about the pain, violence and also torture they face. This kind of behavior has birthed the #MenareTrash movement. Followed by the #Metoo movement. However, I think the movement that makes me want to kill every man alive is the #Missingperson My mind always takes me back to when Michelle Obama said in one of her talks that men need to sit and unpack “their stuff”. She was freely giving all of the men in the world the opportunity and the validation to go into bars, pubs, homes, golf courses, business meetings, boardrooms, coffee shops and even churches and start talking about what this "stuff" really is. Because if we were honest and if w...

Class Is In Session

I wish I could tell you that I am a well put together human being. I wish all my blog posts boasted of this life where I know everything and answers came to me with the greatest of ease. I'm intuitive and decisive but I'm very faulty mentally, not the crazy slice you up and eat you type of faulty but the time that’s self-critical and reflective. I’m an over-thinker. With that having been said, a recent revelation in my life brought me to my knees. After over  thinking I had to beg my very uppity and upset soul to trust the process. What does that even mean, I asked myself in the middle of the night. Trusting the process means not fretting and allowing what was meant for you, meet you along the way. We are set as people to go for something and have it work according to our well thought out plans. Hell and behold should this not happen. The over thinkers on this planet will get me. So I decided to do a little soul searching in aspects I know I need to keep in check. ...